Supporting LGBTQI+ Youth
by Kelsey Stoddard, LMSW

Supporting LGBTQI+ Youth: Creating Safe Spaces and Fostering Acceptance
As conversations around mental health evolve, it’s crucial to shine a light on the unique challenges faced by LGBTQI+ youth. Studies show that LGBTQI+ individuals, especially adolescents, experience higher rates of mental health issues, including depression and anxiety, often stemming from stigma, discrimination, and lack of support. Creating an environment that fosters acceptance and understanding can significantly impact their well-being and development.
Identity, Acceptance & Societal Acceptance
LGBTQI+ youth often grapple with issues related to identity, acceptance, and societal expectations. Many face rejection from family and peers, which can lead to feelings of isolation and low self-worth. Additionally, systemic discrimination and bullying can heighten these feelings, leading to a higher risk of poor mental health. According to the Trevor Project, LGBTQI+ youth are over four times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers. These statistics highlight the urgency of creating supportive environments.
Caring, Understanding Adults
One of the most impactful ways to support LGBTQI+ youth is through the presence of caring, understanding adults. Parents, family members, teachers, school staff, or mentors all have the power to provide this critical support to LGBTQI+ youth. Adults can play a pivotal role in validating the experiences of LGBTQI+ youth and providing a safe space for them to express their identities.
Listen Without Judgment
Encourage open dialogues where youth feel safe to share their thoughts and feelings. Listening actively without judgment allows them to express themselves freely and fosters trust.
Educate Yourself
Understanding LGBTQI+ terminology and the specific challenges these youth face can enhance your ability to provide support. Familiarize yourself with issues such as gender identity, sexual orientation, and the impact of societal pressures.
Advocate for Inclusivity
Whether in schools or community settings, advocate for policies and programs that promote inclusivity. Support initiatives that address bullying and discrimination, and encourage the creation of LGBTQI+-inclusive spaces and learning.
Make Safe Spaces
Save spaces are vital for LGBTQI+ youth to thrive. These are environments where they can express their identity without fear of discrimination or harassment. Here’s how you can contribute to fostering these spaces:
Start Conversations
Facilitate discussions about diversity and inclusion within your home, community or organization. This helps normalize conversations around LGBTQI+ issues and promotes understanding.
Visibility Matters
Display symbols of support, such as rainbow flags or inclusive posters, to signal that your space welcomes and celebrates diversity. Representation can significantly impact a young person’s sense of belonging.
Form or Find Support Groups
Encourage the creation or participation in peer-led support groups where LGBTQI+ youth can connect, share experiences, and build community. Such spaces allow them to find solidarity and strength in shared experiences.
Help Develop Resilience
Supporting LGBTQI+ youth also means helping them develop resilience. Encourage activities that promote self-esteem and self-expression, such as art, sports, or creative writing. These outlets can provide therapeutic benefits and a sense of achievement.
An Environment to Thrive!
Supporting LGBTQI+ youth is not just about understanding their struggles; it’s about fostering an environment where they can thrive. By actively listening, advocating for inclusivity, and creating safe spaces, we can empower these kids to thrive. As a community, we have the responsibility to ensure that every youth feels valued, accepted, and loved for who they are. Together, we can make a difference in their lives, paving the way for a healthier, more inclusive future.
